Dear Stupid boy,
"I hate your stinking guts
you're like the scum between my toes
you make me vomit..."
I have a strong urge to write this.
For all the stupid boys out there who have no boundaries, the heartless.
and if the shoe fits, well?....DO BETTER
My first and major point to this is .... why lie? most importantly why lie to a FEMALE.
Did you know that the female intuition is 99.7% always right.
I'm sure you didn't ... but now you do. So DON'T DO IT.
I cannot stress enough that 9/10 times if a female is asking you a question it's because she already has the answers and screenshots to back out all of the lies... DON'T DO IT.
Why is it so difficult to be honest?
If you're going to hurt someone you might as well hurt them once and say the damn truth.
The truth hurts... but at least it's the truth.
One bad lie turns into a million bad lies and suddenly you're drowning in a big pool of lies and it's impossible to breathe because prior to starting your lying spree you never learned how to swim
(hence: NEVER BEING HONEST) so you find yourself forever drowning. DON'T BE THAT PERSON.
One of the worst feelings ... is believing in someone only to find out it was all a lie.
Why ruin something that was going so perfect.
And to do it to not one but two women, makes it a million times worse.
Couldn't you just have picked one? Like they do in the Bachelor.
(The Bachelor is a reality show that i'm obsessed with. Where 20+ girls compete for the love of ONE guy and in the end he picks one girl and they get engaged, perfect fairytale ending, right?)
EXCEPT in this scenario no one signed up to be a part of the show.
When exactly were you planning to "choose"?
How long can someone keep lies like this going?
It's terrifying to realize just how good people can become at lying.
It also serves as a lesson.
A painful one.
Nonetheless, a lesson that no one deserved.
Not when the love was genuine.
It's easier to say "I hate you" but that's just the immaturity and pain talking.
Even a stupid boy like you deserves love...
One day you'll look back and realize that the "stupid boy" could have been "the lucky man" had he just made up his mind.
Had he not played himself.
Had he been honest.
You see ... it may be easier, it may be more thrilling to be the stupid boy when you're in high school and when you're weighing in your options (do I want the hot blonde or the weird brunette .. hmm?)
But NOT when you're old enough to know better.
NOT when the two individuals involved are exceptional women.
NOT when you're aware that you are breaking two hearts.
If you are one of the stupid boys ... I hope you find peace with yourself.
I hope YOU learn.
I hope YOU grow up.
I hope YOU learn to value the meaning of love.
of transparency .. of honesty.. of trust.
of what being an equal partner means.
"Life is already difficult.
Relationships should make it easier.
Yet too often we choose relationships that complicate it" ....
If you have been a victim of a stupid boy. LET THEM GO.
Lies are not a sign of love.
Betrayal is not a sign of love.
Pain is not a sign of love.
Don't be that girl that lets a stupid boy take their shine. You deserve the world and a diamond ring.
Not a bag filled with empty promises.
If you keep hearing about this "crazy ex" chances are ... he's giving her reasons to act crazy. Females don't go crazy for no reason. 9/10 HE'S the problem not her!
If you're the "crazy ex" and you keep hearing about the "girl who is always there" she's there because she is constantly given reasons to stay (and more than likely she's already in love).
My advice: TALK TO THE "CRAZY EX". TALK TO "THE GIRL WHO'S ALWAYS THERE". (if you care enough to know the whole story) ... and without drama of course.
We females need to stop blaming each other... and stand together. It's not our fault that the stupid boy acted like a stupid boy.
Lastly and most importantly stupid boy,
I want you to know that I do not hold any hate in my heart for you because you lied..
However, I have lost the respect and admiration I had for you because you made me believe.
I don't understand why someone would make you fly so high only to drop you without a parachute nor a fair warning.
You may have been telling the truth, you may actually love me (or not) in your own sick way.. you may actually love her (or both).
Who knows? Who cares.
All I know is I will never trust you again.
This is my goodbye to you stupid boy
I left your shirt in the trashcan in an empty hotel room and I took my heart with me.
Despite everything I will NOT allow you to change my heart nor take my spark.
I wish you the best in this cold happy strange world.
I love you,
your pretty lady