He's Just NOT into you
Have you ever gone a date with someone and walked away from that date thinking ....
"Woah, I'm gonna marry that guy"
However, I have walked away from numerous dates thinking...
"that was such a great date I can't wait to see him again!"
and you proceed to text all your close friends to give them all the details.
The only problem is you end up never hearing from the guy again.
That's me and majority of my friends.
Which brings me to this...
He's Just NOT into you
During my recent girl talk with my single friends we have all pretty much expressed the same feelings towards men... THEY SUCK (okay not all but a good chunk of them).
A few days ago I was at dinner with one of my girlfriends and we had a very nice guy as our waiter... during that time my friend was expressing how irritated she was that a guy was not messaging her back and when he did it was hours and sometimes days later.
My advice to her was that there are guys who like to play the game of playing it "cool". Which is ridiculous in my opinion (because we all hang on to our phones 24/7). I told her to let the guy know that it was bothering her... (even though she'd only gone out with the guy once).
I'm a proud advocate of SPEAKING YOUR FEELINGS. Even though I could agree that it was all very new.
We proceeded to then ask our sweet waiter for advice on this topic since she wasn't too content with my response.
This is what he said:
"When a man is interested in pursuing a woman.... he goes for it and doesn't follow any of those silly playing it cool games... it just sounds like he just isn't into you."
Ladies and gentlemen .... that was the entire truth and nothing but the truth.
It applies to both men and women.
I obviously understand that most individuals are busy and sometimes can't send speedy replies.. (I'm in the clouds half the time so I know) ... but all it takes is a sprinkle of effort.
We can all agree that the sprinkle of effort only happens when the interest is there.. if it isn't you'll know.
Or sometimes the guy is interested ... but he isn't aware that he's coming across as disinterested.
Because let's face it... more than half of the time we females have a million thoughts about the person we have interest in ... while men are off thinking about who's gonna win the Super Bowl (or something that doesn't involve us).
Which is why I strongly believe you should always SPEAK YOUR FEELINGS.
It might scare him off... but one thing is for sure... it will never scare off the one that is RIGHT for you.
We need to stop making excuses for these men.
Most importantly we need to stop giving away our time to people who do not value it. We are modern women and our time is valuable.
Always always listen to your gut and remember that you are worth everything + all the sprinkles.
PS. ThankYOU for reading ...
I hope you aren't over my dating life rants LOL and if you are I apologize in advance because I have another one COMINGSOON!
I love you all,
and I hope wherever you find yourself... you are happy and enjoying this beautiful thing called life.